Over time, you can gradually phase out the reward part of the training and just use the distraction technique. Play Fighting Basics In general, you shouldn't discourage puppies from play fighting. We've got a baby on the way, and I really don't want the stress of tense dogs and a toddler in my future. Hello, I wish my parents had read this artical. Is it too late to separate them? Unfortunately, it is normally a false boldness, in reality, he has been emboldened by the others siblings weakness. The 2nd one developed an OBSESSION with food and getting snacks 24/7 and grew quite fat. His articles cover everything you would need to know about working and living with dogs. This is very rare, especially with puppies who are too small to inflict any real damage on each other. Adorable. Dish out rewards in order of pack superiority. The most severe forms are usually seen among female littermates. The goal is to redirect your dog’s … This manifests itself in aggression as they approach both physical and social maturity. I always recommend my clients to wait until their puppy is 14 months old before purchasing another puppy. When they arrived I had never seen such traumatized puppies in all my life. If you can find someone that understands why this is happening then that would b a good start. It's a heartbreaking decision - but clearly the right one. They never used to fight. They live in separate houses but probably see each other most days. Hi, Stella, I think it was your sister that wrote the request above your and i have answered that in full. This is a difficult one as the fighting is all about the owner as a resource so in fact, they fight for the owner's attention. 1 pup, Mellow, was born in my house when the security guard's dog chose it as a place to hang out. He's so much healthier but still skinny. Note down the stimuli that provoke fighting between your puppies. We just thought they would grow out of this. Both have lovely temperaments, great with our nephews and children no problems at all. I would really appreciate any advice you could provide. Puppies brawl with their littermates, mother and friendly adult dogs to develop their … Thank you so much for your work. They are crated separately and walked separately, and dont fight at all, yet at least. Then mellow started licking him and encouraging him to play and before I knew it, he was able to be patted and came on walks etc. If you raise two young pups from different litters or even breeds, you can have similar problems. Should we not do this. Siblings often play hard, and fight harder. Is there anything I should look out for ? Again, home life is good. We had 4 grown dogs in the house already, with whom the 1st pup (more adventurous and brave) got along much better. She is tougher because she knows he will join. It is all about resources and the biggest resource of all is the owners if these siblings see the other getting the attention they believe they deserve they can get concerned about losing that vital resource. I would like your thoughts before I offer to take one in. See (1) The Alpha Myth on my website. Once you stop paying attention, they’ll begin to interact again. I cannot stress how important it is to separate the siblings until they are older. Turning a second dog loose in the home can result in your faithful companion defending his territory. This regime will not be for life, as the pups will after a period of about 12 to 14 months have formed their own personalities and temperaments; at this age, they will have become confident of their own individual abilities. My partner and I have aquired two spayed female jack Russells die to their previous owner being unable to cope with them. It started over food now it's progressed. Grabbing dogs whilst they are fighting can result in "redirected aggression," where a dog bites you because he thinks you are part of the conflict. Sibling rivalry, bickering, squabbling, arguing… call it what you will, it’s frustrating, upsetting and mentally exhausting when your kids constantly fight with each other. Observe the puppies at play. The friend ended up telling us that the puppy's siblings were still available and we ended up deciding to adopt the puppy's brother. Another Potential Problem Among Littermates: Fighting. Your pups will learn that positive stimuli arrive when they don’t fight, so they’ll behave accordingly. It's part of their development and a normal way for them to learn limits, as in "this is how hard you can bite before you get in trouble." When two puppies of the same age are adopted, this can lead to several issues which occur as a result of the excess bonding and developmental deficits that takes place inevitably if no steps are taken. Not as in most cases total inter-dependence on each other when they are raised, trained, and fed together. She was speyed a couple of months ago and he hasn't yet grown enough. We have a 6 month old cockerpoo bitch who has been wonderful. My sister and I purchased a French bulldog puppy each, both males. thereby benefiting from that closeness and companionship gleaning untold pleasure from each others company. It is not easy for my parents and they are seriously investigating rehoming one of the pups. Often, we can inadvertently cause the conflict; owners can disturb the hierarchical balance by rushing to protect the would-be subordinate from being “bullied” or “picked on”, The result of that is by granting him or her liberties, such as being petted first, which the other dog may consider his due can cause further stresses on the relationship. This may be of help. With the busy lifestyles, we now lead, it would seem feasible to take on two pups. Read my article (2) The Dangers of Spaying and Castration, it is not as simple or clear-cut as people imagine. She is an energetic clown, he is sweet and kind. Sibling puppies, therefore, will be as difficult to handle as two fighting human siblings. One of the easiest ways to stop your sibling puppies from fighting is to give them distinct periods of separation and distinct periods of interaction. I wish you the very best for these dogs. A week ago my mom fell in love with a puppy that a friend's family ended up adopting. Read my article on neutering. They are now 6 months old. I got 3 of their male siblings adopted into separate homes with great difficulty (took me 3 months of relentless posting and follow up on social media), and female dogs don't get adopted soon. I heard the term "littermate syndrome" and at first I followed the advice, separate walks, separate playtime, etc. Is there any recommendations you can think of to rectifying this? Reward the puppies as soon they turn their attention to you. If you read the article I do not say that all the dogs that are brought together have problems some don't but the reality is that MOST of these young pups reared together will have significant behavioural problems. I hope it helps. Never neuter both dogs especially if these dogs are male. If you can I would rehome one. If the dog you are getting is also over 14 months and the pup is seven months then that is OK as well. Especially if the bossier dog is also the more socially anxious one? It must've been a puppy mill they came from. The incidence of owners purchasing "Siblings", either same-sex or brother and sister from the same litter or two puppies from different litters and breeds but of similar ages is now more prevalent than at any other time in living memory. Dogs that have not been spayed or neutered … Any help would be appreciated. Happy to try anything although my parter won't hear of rehousing one of them. The Kennel Club: Toilet Training and Socialisation. They play, and love each other but are also fine doing their own thing. If I should separate them, will need to do it before more time passes. With females, it is even more complex. Fights typically break out when a change to their immediate environment confuses pack order. I already tried to post this once, so if it double posts, forgive me--I'm a bit of an emotional pregnant lady. But she wasn't happy about his attempts to take her by force and sticks. How siblings see the relationship between them and their owners as a resource and they will fight over the attention and resources you give them. The simple answer is it will be slightly easier, however I believe you should not have another young dog when your existing pup is under 14 months. Go for a walk side by side, allowing them to stop and sniff one another when both are in a calm state. Our breeder told us it was normal puppy behaviour. If it can have that type of physical effect just imagine what is occurring psychologically. Eventually it became clear that I gained a pup. my girl and focus on her for a couple of weeks while I focus on the boy-I feel like we need to break their cycle You will see dramatic improvements to the personalities of both pups. Toss the loop around the hindquarters of one of the dogs, creating a sort of sling, and slowly drag the dog at least 20 feet away. They often bark and yap at other dogs, and may either pretend to attack or actually attack to chase the other dogs away. One of the girls has warmed up to me but the other is so skittish, she jumps at the slightest movement. It may be best to neuter the least aggressive and the one that pees first and the other mark over it. They aren't great out in the world when other dogs come up. For a period of time, you should work them separately. My theory is that most "littermate syndrome" issues is really just people not providing enough care and attention to their dogs. When a dog is by itself, there isn't much it can do, besides chew up a shoe or something. Copyright 2021 Leaf Group Ltd. / Leaf Group Media, All Rights Reserved. (drew a little blood.) If your dogs push each other out of the way for attention, if one dog gets upset while you are training the other, they get snappy and grabby with treats, or even fight over toys, then your household is suffering from sibling rivalry. My article on Dogs Fighting in the Home is first on Google it is curable but not many behaviourists know how to facilitate this. My partner and I adopted two sibling puppies this year (male and female). Should these pups be kept completely apart? What Happens in the Wild? Often just soft sounds can trigger noise and warning barks. Firstly determine who is the more dominant, reinforce that position by feeding, greeting, playing or letting the top dog out first. Castration: If you have to neuter and I certainly do not recommend it for many reasons covered here whatever you do you must not spay or castrate both dogs. He is in protection mode when she's around. Through this, she was regularly fed by me and basically lived in a pack during the day and nights in my house. Although nothing is set in stone, generally bringing together dogs with too many similar qualities, ie age, size, sex, temperament, and breed, may spark a conflict. Here are three important steps to keeping sibling rivalry at bay in your house Recognize who should be “king” and support him/her. Lots of questions here the simple answer is in the article it explains what you should do if you keep them. He has contributed to and written for various magazines including "K9 Magazine" and "Pet Friendly Magazine." House training can be done but you must use a crate especially at night and follow my articles on toilet training on the website. Can't identify who the alpha is now at this stage and whether castration should be the way to go. Children need to know that they cannot play rough; wrestling, fighting type games with the dog as these encourage the dog to fight back. I wonder if you may be able to help. This is normally fear based. A couple questions, should I get Lucy spayed even though Bailey is the alpha? However, I have written an article called Dogs Fighting in the Home and this does cover the problems you are having and though you cannot see the trigger I can. Positives: They are wonderful together at home with me, with my friends and happy laying at my feet in a coffee shop. Get them into routines separate them on a regular basis and feed them twice a day in different locations. do i stop them? Many people get two puppies so that they can play together when the opposite needs to happen. But, as they are both going to be 7 months old when they get together, are the risks smaller? They are about a year and a half old. but after awhile stopped doing it because it didn't seem to do anything and seemed a little ridiculous actually. I gave a time out by putting one in the bathroom for 10 minutes. Far from a case of dog sibling rivalry, when one dog attacks the other in the house, the reason is stress. 4 pups, rehomed 3 and the security guard was supposed to take Mellow. Most believe it is just related to hormones and dominance, That could not be further from the truth. Things You Must Do: Everything must now be done independently to allow for the Siblings to have any chance of becoming separate entities instead of the reduced sum of the whole. Therefore it is fear rather than dominance based. but they always seem to be playing or what looks to be fighting. That is definitely one of the bigger of the many problems that can arise by taking on siblings. (4-5 street dogs who live on our road.) Unfortunately, this knowledge now appears to have been lost on today’s dog owners. Please suggest what to do, he is otherwise the sweetest dog and we do not want to re-home him. It's interacting with the world that is an issue. There is always a pack order and dogs are happiest when this order is clearly established, even if they happen to be the submissive dog. Ignore the dogs. By determining what your dogs are fighting about, you can address the issue and put an end to it. I'll try putting up one for adoption but not too hopeful there. Lucy, is 5 months old, is a blue lacy mix, and has not been spayed or been to training. Though i would certainly separate them at the classes as they may not get the most out of these classes> Having said that I think you will be fine. This is a difficult one to suggest remedial actions the fact you are pregnant can cause issues as your dogs know you're pregnant. Ever since the the sisters have had some vicious fights. They are cuddly, playful and funny. I would also read Dogs Fighting In the Home  Which is an article I wrote a few years ago which is also first on Google. With regard to neutering may I suggest you read my Dangers of Neutering Overview. I read you your concerns and think the separation you are doing is enough to stave of littermate syndrome. Be aware that the longer you delay the harder it will be to part with one of your pups. “The problem with that approach is that it’s often difficult to tell who should be the alpha dog, it is also difficult for owners to play favourites with their dogs. How to stop sibling puppies from fighting? Littermate Syndrome Issue 3: Inter-Dog Aggression Especially among same-sex siblings, fighting can become severe, even dangerous, as they reach maturity. Hi Stacy. Keep your body a safe distance away from the dog. They can play together but only at strict designated times and for a period of no more than 15 minutes each designated playtime. Neither have been spayed. This will teach the … Should I start feeding them separately or is it too late? taking away vital calming hormones such as Oestrogen and Progesterone can fuel the level of aggression to the point that they could fight to the death. They "play fought" a lot for a few months, before the 1st pup started asserting his dominance by attacking the 2nd if he ate food in front of him. Stan and Lenny are only a couple weeks apart in age, but they did not even meet each other for several months. The problem of sibling puppies fighting is a serious one and it goes beyond simple squabbles among two puppies. By learning to recognize these gestures, you can diffuse a fight as soon as it begins. They fight with each other occasionally, but I let them work it out themselves and they never hurt each other. The second pup is smaller than our one. I estimate he is about 6 months old now and mellow approaching a year. The passive dog will typically display this with submissive gestures, such as rolling over, averting his gaze, moving out the other dog’s way and patiently waiting his turn to feed. Many thanks. To keep dogs from fighting it is important to work with them one on one. They often bark in the home when left, or even when the owner is still present and someone comes in or to the door. They are better apart than together right now in the above situations. It is worth stating that it is not only siblings that have these problems. Sometimes the problem can be resolved if instead of protecting the underdog the owner supports the hierarchy ie the top dog. They steal each others toys and bones, even when they have their own, they growl at each other for no apparent reason, the female is particularly aggressive. Any advice on how stop this behaviour? Try the Jingler and the OFF command it can make a massive difference to the behaviour of your dogs.. You will need two of each. Because they did well before and were making dog friends, I think with consistency, they can get back on track. Or will the issues return if they live together again? They could stimulate each other and keep themselves company, hopefully alleviating any separation anxiety. If you need to break up a fight, squirt the dogs with water, throw a blanket over them or make a noise aversion therapy sound to break the circle of aggression by distracting them. Then like a light switch being turned off, they start to distance themselves from their siblings. They fight regularly, particularly when my partner and I are around. The lower dog may now feel emboldened enough to challenge the bolder dog. Does this article aply to them also if i have another two dogs ? They both hit puberty at about 6 mo. The change in hormones is easily perceptible to dogs as the change come out through your skin and breath> There are several reports of dog owners raising two sibling puppies at once without any particular problems. During this time, they also learn the rules regarding hierarchy, rank, and position and social interaction. He has also written for Dogmagazine.net. This article definitely applies to them. For example she got out yesterday and wouldn't come back inside the gate. Should I do it slowly or quickly? How to Train Puppies Not to Fight Each Other, Puppies Play Fighting image by Tourmalet06 from. I live in a developing country and have ended up with 2 unrelated young dogs with very different eating backgrounds. Am very interested how to help these two guys stop constantly fighting when together. 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